Monday, September 11, 2006
Cables and Lace
Sunday, September 10, 2006
One sock is my design and the finished pair will be for my mother, and the other sock is my DH's design and I'm not sure who the final owner will be. :) I don't have time to get the pictures up tonight, but hopefully tomorrow.
Tomorrow will be back to work for DH and I after having this past week off because of my FIL's passing. I hope my desk isn't totally trashed, I guess I'll find out in the morning.
Friday, September 08, 2006
Life back to normal???
The visitation was Wednesday, and it was the longest night of my life. We got there a little after 2pm and stayed till 8pm. There were family members, friends and co-workers there. There were flowers and plants everywhere, and in the casket was my FIL. We all decided to dress him in his normal clothes, not a suit, so he was in a polo shirt and pants, and he was holding his rosary. Tucked into the casket was a pack of chewing tobacco, his glasses, his Dale Earnhart cap, and hard candy. The funeral home did a fabulous job with him, and were SOOOOOO good to us.
The funeral was Thursday. Tom Buffington and I did the readings at church, and the ceremony was very nice with music picked out by my SIL Jeannette. Then came the funeral procession to the gravesite, but we took the long way around so he could see the house one last time. :) The Air Force color guard was waiting for us at the gravesite. They showed Papa Joe the utmost respect. When Taps was played on the bugle I started crying. The lt. who presented the flag to my MIL Hattie had a tear running down his face and got a little choked up. The only part I heard was that he was presenting the flag on behalf of the President of the United States. After that I broke down and couldn't hear anything else.
We then went back to the church where the ladies had prepared food for us. There were about 75 people there eating. After lunch we headed back to my in-laws with the family. 2 of my FIL's brothers were able to come down, as well as 1 sister, 3 sisters-in-law, and 1 niece. The only remaining sibling was a sister who couldn't come down due to health reasons.
It has been a long hard week, and here we are coming up on the weekend. I don't like to think about what my desk will look like when I get back on Monday, or what my DH will have to deal with since has not been able to replace his assistant yet. He is the only person who knows how to do his job now, so he will have to try and catch up on a week's worth of work when he gets back.
I would like to thank everyone who has sent me e-mails giving me support and prayers. I wish I had the time to contact each one of you individually, but I'm afraid that is impossible.
I'm looking forward to sitting down and relaxing with some knitting. Maybe I'll even have time to do that this weekend. :)
Monday, September 04, 2006
Needless to say we are all in shock with the suddenness of it all. Today has been spent making phone calls, going through paperwork and crying. He will be sorely missed by all who knew him. He served in the Air Force for over 20 years and will be having a military funeral. His service will be at his church. We will be going tomorrow to make the final arrangements as they were totally unprepared. We are going to pick out the gravesite as well as the casket.
This is a new experience for me as I've not had a parent pass away yet. It's only been distant relatives and grandparents, and other have taken care of the arrangements. My MIL (mother-in-law) is handling things fairly well. She is of course shocked, but trying to get things taken care of. My DH is helping with the paperwork aspects, and us girls (my 2 SIL's and I) are trying to help with decisions on where and when. Everything is being democratically, and as the only in-law, I even have a vote, (I guess that's what you get after 20 years of marriage).
Prayers would be appreciated from all who do pray, and good wishes from those who don't.
P.S. Please forgive any spelling errors. :)